Polycule conflict can be repaired if everyone actually wants to fix it and takes self-motivated steps toward repair, not because a hinge or metamour is urging them to. We’ve mediated many polycule disputes and gone through them ourselves. I (Millie) have had metamours I didn’t get along with and chose to be very parallel with them. Looking back, I wasn’t doing anything toward repair because I didn’t care about repairing with that person anymore. And that’s real. I also wasn’t thinking in terms o