Gitty Hecht on Instagram: "Humans are hardwired to recognize familiarity over what may be the wiser option. . If you’ve been in a relationship - particularly long term - whether it be parental, spousal or otherwise - that was unsafe or toxic in some way, you may be unconsciously searching for that familiarity, that rush, those highs and lows in your relationships. Your nervous system may not recognize healthy attachment. . When I started dating my now husband, Rabbi @mordechaihecht - he showed m

Gitty Hecht on Instagram: "Never in a million years did I dream I would be worthy of being in a position to love and nurture others the way we do. . And while I struggled and fought and floundered and grew to get here without even knowing that this was the destination, HaShem smiled. . Because He knew. . He knew all along."