The problem with the lack of mainstream models for healthy polyamorous relationships is that people often don’t know what standards to expect. Many mistakenly believe that being in a polyamorous dynamic means accepting whatever they get and that being “progressive” equates to being content with less. However, the foundational elements of a healthy relationship remain the same, whether it’s monogamous or polyamorous. You still need consistency, a certain amount of time to build a secure attachmen