Sometimes when we’ve been in an abusive relationship with a narcissist and we start to get chronic illnesses, we just put it down to “life”. We give time to understand the narcissistic abuse and want to know every detail, then time to treat the symptoms of the abuse BUT what we often don’t do is the trauma work. The root cause of WHY we ended up in an abusive relationship, the root cause of why we FEEL the way we do, even though we can often see the narcissist is the abuser!!! We still focus on