A Marriage, Remarriage Tip 📌 5 things to consider when communicating with your spouse. How we speak to our spouse and the tone in which we speak, sends a message and meaning that can either positively or negatively affect our communication and ultimately our marriage. Here are 5 things to consider when communicating with your spouse: 1.) Vocal pitch 2.) Vocal tone 3.) Rate of speech 4.) Inflection 5.) Body language When communicating with our spouse, often times are vocal pitch, how high or low