For the avoidant attachment styles in the room! Here is a way to love your partner with an anxious attachment, from the perspective of someone with an anxious attachment. These are just a few things that work for us. To an avoidant, reassurance can be triggering. It’s something that can feel very uncomfortable because it’s a muscle that hasn’t had much exercise yet. The avoidant has the tendency to take things personally, meaning, they may feel that reassuring their partner is an admission of fa