Nonverbal bids for connection can work, but as Dr. John Gottman notes, only “as long as you are both clear about what message you’re sending or receiving.” Ask yourself: Do you know your partner's go-to move? Is it a smile from across the table? Do they cuddle close at bedtime? How about you? Are you sure your partner knows what you’re asking for? | The Gottman Institute

In their New York Times bestselling book, The Love Prescription, Drs. John and Julie Gottman show you how to start improving your relationship in just seven days. Today, think about what kinds of bids for connection you see your partner making. | The Gottman Institute