If you and your partner aren’t arguing, does that mean you have a healthy relationship? Maybe, but for many couples it means that there is a lack of vulnerability and intimacy. You should have different views and ideas on some things, you should be upset if a value is disregarded, or if you are feeling disrespected, or be able to communicate when you are needing a little more of something from your partner. Conflict is where you grow together—it’s an opportunity to connect, to feel appreciated,